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72. You Can’t Bypass Your Family: The Deeper Path of Constellation Work with Rodrigo Hagar Millon

Tracy Cartwright with Rodrigo Hagar Millon

16 Apr 2026

In this episode of Constellations and All That, I’m joined by Rodrigo Hagar for a deeply honest and expansive conversation about what it really means to walk a path of healing.

Rodrigo is a clinical psychologist, family constellations facilitator, and co-director of an institute in Chile offering trainings in systemic constellations and trauma. He is also a composer and writer, bringing a rich integration of music, depth psychology, and lived experience into his work.


In this conversation, we gently open into:


  • Why there is no healing path that exists outside of our family system

  • How “spiritual bypassing” can keep us disconnected from what truly needs to be seen

  • The unconscious ways we stay loyal to our family through patterns, behaviours, and even struggle

  • What it means to belong — and how that shapes the way we live, love, and heal

  • The living field of constellations, and what happens when we allow it to lead


Rodrigo also shares parts of his own journey from personal crisis into this work and how family constellations continues to shape his life, his parenting, and his relationship to self.


If you’d like to learn more about Rodrigo and his work, you can explore here:

https://encuadrado.com/p/rodrigo-hagar


If you’re new to this work, you’re warmly welcome here. You may like to begin with the “Introduction to Family Constellations” playlist on YouTube.


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https://www.youtube.com/@constellationsandallthat

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